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​To be or not to be

17/4/2026

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By Catherine Watson

I LOST three friends in January. All were in their 80s and 90s so their deaths were not unexpected. And all three were more than ready to depart.

One sought Voluntary Assisted Dying and was rejected.

One planned to end her own life.

One tried to end her own life but failed.
We’re living longer than previous generations, kept alive by the miracles of modern medicine, but it’s not all beer and skittles. In the 21st century, most of us will live long enough to develop dementia, heart disease, cancer, diabetes, a respiratory illness or a combination of them all.

Many of us will spend our last few years in chronic pain and depression. And some of us will decide we’ve had enough.

It’s not illegal to take your own life, but it’s difficult, especially if you’re old or frail or have a debilitating illness. You used to be able to swallow a bottle of sleeping tablets, washed down by a slug of whisky, but that’s unlikely to work these days. Governments have put a lot of effort into stopping us from killing ourselves. Overdosing is harder than you might think. Nor will running the exhaust on your car (catalytic converters changed that) or putting your head in the oven (electric) do it.

This is not an economic argument, but it's impossible to ignore the costs of our longer lives.  Australia’s aged care system is struggling as the boomers hit their 70s and 80s. In 2023–24, the Australian government spent $60 billion on age pensions and a further $36 billion on aged care services, not to mention the cost of health care in the last decade of life.

It’s hard to understand, then, why governments put so much effort into forcing old people to stay to the bitter end. Making Voluntary Assisted Dying available to everyone over a certain age, regardless of whether they have a terminal illness, looks like a sensible solution.
 
What age? Well, three score years and 10 used to be our allotted span. Before you right-to-lifers get fired up, I’m not talking about Compulsory Assisted Dying. Some people want to drink every last drop of life, and that’s fine with me. Others want to skip the last chapter.
 
But which politician is going to be brave enough to put their head above the parapet?
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Victoria led the way in Australia with the introduction of Voluntary Assisted Dying (VAD) in 2019. To qualify, you must have a terminal illness with a projected life expectancy of less than six months (12 months for neurological conditions).

When the legislation passed, the government predicted about 12 deaths in the first year and 100–150 per year afterwards. In fact there were 124 deaths in the first year (2019–20), and there are now nearly 400 each year, around 0.8 per cent of all deaths, still much lower than in more liberal jurisdictions like Canada or the Netherlands.

Since 2019, other Australian states have followed Victoria’s example. As often happens with early adopters, Victoria's regime is now the most conservative in the country.

Last November, the Victorian Parliament voted to ease several key aspects of the law: health workers will now be able to initiate discussions about VAD with patients, and the terminal prognosis requirement will be extended to 12 months for all conditions. However, the new rules will not take effect until April 2027.

They are still arbitrary, and they don’t address the elephant in the room. To qualify for VAD you need to show not only that you have a terminal illness but that you are of sound mind.

The latest figures from the ABS show the leading cause of death in 2024 was dementia, accounting for 9.4 per cent of deaths, more than 17,000 people. The rate is rising.

No use writing in your advance care directive that you wish to have VAD should you develop advanced dementia; it counts for nothing. You must be able to give informed consent when the medication is administered.

Given that a large number of us will develop dementia, we need to consider our own exit well before we reach a point where we have no say in the matter.
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Dr Rodney Syme did more than anyone to shepherd the introduction of Voluntary Assisted Dying in Victoria. While it was a major breakthrough, he always knew it was a restrictive law that could help only a small proportion of people in practice.

Syme believed the medical model was flawed. Doctors should not be the gatekeepers making decisions for others.

In A Completed Life, he went further. He argued that law and policy focus too narrowly on physical or terminal suffering. People also experience existential suffering – loss of purpose, dignity, independence, identity, or fear of decline – which can be just as real and intolerable as physical pain.

He argued that the state and the medical profession should not override a considered, enduring wish to die simply because a person does not meet a medical threshold. An older person may reasonably conclude their life narrative is finished.

While Victoria’s laws restrict access to those with advanced, incurable illness, Switzerland takes a far broader approach. There, assisted dying is legal so long as it is not carried out for “selfish motives”, a framework that has allowed organisations such as Dignitas to accept people from overseas, including those who are not terminally ill.

David Goodall was 104 when he travelled from Perth to Basel in 2018 to end his life. He wanted his experience to be used to argue for an easing of Australia’s laws.

He was not terminally ill but described his life as “no longer worth living” and argued that older people should have the right to choose the timing of their death, even without terminal illness.

He said he resented having to travel so far to die, but was relieved the end was near. “My recent life has not been enjoyable,” he told reporters in Basel, before receiving a lethal injection of Nembutal.
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Some people adjust to the idea of “being, not doing” as they age. Others do not.

​My three friends had all lived rich, fulfilling lives. Each, in their own way, had reached a point where life was less about living than enduring.
12 Comments
Christie
17/4/2026 12:58:07 pm

I would like to be granted the opportunity to die with dignity and choice when I reach a late age where I am no longer able to live independently and my friends and family are not around. I hope it becomes available.

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Paula Street
17/4/2026 01:33:15 pm

Couldn't agree more

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Felicia Di Stefano
17/4/2026 02:13:44 pm

Thank you, Catherine; most persuasive arguments for assisted dying when we've had enough. I volunteer at a nursing home and see the suffering of people who have had enough. One particular lady told me, "it's enough, I have had enough, I want it to end." She was 100. I could do nothing. We need to have a choice. Condolences for your three friends in one month.

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Susan Alexander
18/4/2026 06:24:03 am

I would like to choose the timing of my own death, before I am unable to do so, and before I am a burden to others and a cost to government to keep me alive

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Margaret Lee
19/4/2026 09:11:34 am

Thank you Catherine for bringing up such an important topic. Like Felicia I also volunteer with the Aged and know of similar stories. While VAD is not for everyone it should be a viable option. Currently too restrictive as experienced by a close relative who was refused that option.

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Doris Tate
19/4/2026 02:05:45 pm

Thank you Catherine for a fine article. Forcing people to live in physical pain or when life is without any kind of personal agency is simply barbaric. I too have witnessed the anguish of people who want a graceful end.

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Beth
20/4/2026 01:09:12 pm

It is a difficult subject, religion, mercy killing, the threat of elder abuse,and the non acceptance that people want to end living is difficult for others to accept.
Being keep alive, with medications or going through the process of getting permission to die is a a journey of enormous stress.
The process and conditions make little sense. The laws need a review taking into account the documents already provided by people who have taken the journey and have provided already the information where changes should occur.
Thank you Catherine

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Robyn Kemp
20/4/2026 03:03:16 pm

I have signed a petition for Hem's Law regarding people suffering from Alzheimer's and Dementia - both terminal illnesses. In the late stages the brain forgets to swallow. This is a neurological reality - the cortical regions that coordinate swallowing are systematically destroyed by the disease and they don't come back, and patients are allowed to starve to death, sometimes taking over 2 weeks. We would never allow animals to be treated in this way. Please seek out Hem's Law and read further. We need to address this and be humane to our loved ones.

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Warren Nichols
20/4/2026 06:39:33 pm

Well argued Catherine! Without a purpose, what's the point in holding on?

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Liane Arno
22/4/2026 08:20:05 am

I watched Dr Goodall on an ABC series You Can't Ask That? Sure we were meant to giggle when he and the other centenarians talked about whether they were sexually active and when they responded to "Why aren't you dead yet?" But then I remember Dr Goodall being asked, "Are you a burden to society?" He replied that he was. I was so moved. Here was someone who had contributed so much to society and now he felt a burden to it. My heart went out to him and it was only a couple of years later that this marvellous man travelled to Switzerland so he wouldn't be a burden any longer.

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julie
1/5/2026 01:54:14 am

Thanks Catherine for writing about this, it needs to be discussed more.

Frankly I find Australians are shit when it comes to sadness and melancholy, let alone to speak of death, dying and the need to let death in when it’s due.

There’s quality of life yes, but there also needs to be quality of death.

Whether one has come to the end of a long life, or a younger person is in physical and existential torture, or whatever the intolerable situation may be, we need to have the dignity and liberty to choose - even when we’ve “lost capacity”.

I think it was you who said to me, “There are worse things than death”. I couldn’t agree more.

It’s a huge topic that traverses all areas of medicine and paramedic training, too. And it’s complex.

Condolences on losing three friends in such a short time span. Even when we know that death will be their release, grief and loss is real and moves through us.





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Thelma Dowson
2/5/2026 09:32:54 pm

Thankyou Catherine for writing on this topic.I believe it is an individual choice for any person to choose assisted dying.
Quality of life is so very important, and when an individual person has that taken from them it should be a much easier system to a peaceful transition.

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