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Why I am sorry

20/5/2021

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In March, the Bass Coast South Gippsland Reconciliation Group celebrated Anne Davie's long contribution to the group. Anne is seated, centre. Patrice Mahoney is on the right. Photo: Geoff Ellis
By Anne Davie
 
IN 2007, Patrice Mahoney*, a Ngayaywana woman from NSW who lives in Bass Coast, invited dozens of people to a meeting in Inverloch.  Those invited were from local neighbourhood houses, hospitals, welfare agencies, community leaders, schools and the council.
 
Patrice stood up and said “Okay, you white fellas, what are you doing about us black fellas?”
 
It was a defining moment for me. That day I became a member of the Bass Coast/ South Gippsland Reconciliation Group. ​
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When I was at primary school we never spoke or learned anything about Aboriginal people. They were not mentioned and I thought they were somewhere out in the desert in Central Australia.  Maybe we heard that they ate witchetty grubs. And I recall there were sketches in books of little black children with a caption: Picaninnies.
 
 In secondary school I studied British history which included the discovery of Australia by Captain James Cook. In the late 18th century, Britain began shipping prisoners to provide the labour to establish a colony in the southern hemisphere. I did not question how the arrival affected the “natives” who lived here.  I did not ask how we could just take their land. I didn’t question if there was any resistance to the British appearing on their shores.
 
Although not stated, at that time, it was felt people of another colour, that is not white, were inferior. 
 
In my secondary school years, after the end of the Second World War, the school sponsored two English girls to be educated.  Certainly no consideration was given for the opportunity to educate two Aboriginal girls.
I did not know that Aboriginal men went overseas to fight in the Second World War.  White returned servicemen were offered land to farm on their return to Australia but this offer was not extended to Aboriginal servicemen.  It did not matter that their ancestors had cared for the land for millennia. They were unable to join their mates at the local pub because they were black.  They did not receive a pension after discharge.  They could not become members of the Returned Servicemen’s League.
 
When I attended Melbourne University in the 1950s I did not ever see a black person, let alone an Aboriginal person.  I do not recall ever seeing an Aboriginal person when I worked in the outpatients of public hospitals.
 
At this same time, we did not know children were being taken away from their Aboriginal parents.  It was thought at the time that the children could be saved from their Aboriginal life and become like white children.  Nobody was concerned about the grieving of the parents or the distress of the children being away from family and country.  When the children were about 16 years old, they were sent to white households to do domestic duties. They were deprived of any opportunity to reconnect with country.
National Sorry Day on May 26 acknowledges the mistreatment of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people who were forcibly removed from their families and communities. It heralds the start of Reconciliation Week. 
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Mon, May 31, 11am-2pm
Walk Together for Reconciliation:  Welcome to Country and Smoking Ceremony and a walk across the bridge from San Remo to Newhaven. Speeches, music and barbecue. Hosted by Bass Coast Reconciliation Network.
I have a book titled Australia the Great South Land, dated 1956.  In the chapter titled ‘Discovery and Settlement’ it says: Scattered over the continent was a handful of aboriginal people driven here from the north over a now broken bridge long centuries ago.  They brought with them literally nothing and they lived a nomadic life without agriculture. A photo of three Aboriginal men has the caption “Stone age people – the Australian aborigines singing for their mysterious kangaroo corroboree”.
 
In the early 1960s we read about the Freedom Riders.  Led by Aboriginal activist Charlie Perkins, they rode through outback towns where there was racial discrimination.  They particularly drew the attention of the media to the situation that Aboriginal children could not swim in the town swimming pools with white children.  They were banned from the changing rooms.
 
In 1966 Vincent Lingiari led 200 courageous Aboriginal stockmen and their families to seek better conditions on the white owned stations.
 
This was the prelude to the Referendum in 1967 which asked Australians the question whether Aboriginal people should be included in the Census.  Australians overwhelmingly voted yes.  Until then they were listed under the flora and fauna.
 
In 1976 there was the first attempt by an Australian government to legally recognise the Aboriginal system of land ownership and put into law the concept of inalienable freehold title.
 
In 1986 my husband Bob and I went for our first trip to Central Australia.  When I saw the Macdonell Ranges I was in awe. In our many subsequent camping holidays out country, I experienced the power of the landscape and understood the dreamtime stories of the First People and the magic and beauty of the night sky. I understood their connection to country and was humbled.
 
When we walked around Alice Springs it was the first time I had seen Aboriginal Australians.  I was saddened to see them wandering aimlessly around the streets, looking disconnected and dispirited. To me Alice Springs was a sad and troubled town. Racism and segregation was there for all to see.
 
In 1988 Australia celebrated 200 years of white settlement since Arthur Phillip established the colony in the name of England.  For Aboriginal people it was the day they were invaded.  I remember with shame the morning I stood next to the Phillip Island Shire President’s wife, Ruby Gates, an Aboriginal woman, during a re-enactment at Rhyll of the first fleet landing on the beach.  How alone and sad Ruby must have felt that day but I failed to sense her pain.
 
In 2018 when NAIDOC week was celebrated at Churchill Island, the late Ruby Gates’s family was presented with an award for her involvement and contribution to the community of Phillip Island.  I was grateful for the opportunity to tell those present of the heartless experience Ruby had to endure that morning in Rhyll in 1988.
 
In the early 1990s there was a Royal Commission into Aboriginal Deaths in Custody.
For the first time people were talking about the Frontier Wars.  Aboriginal people had not quietly acquiesced to the white invaders but had put up powerful resistance.

In June 1992, the High Court of Australia recognised that Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples have rights to the land – rights that existed before the British arrived and can still exist today.

Then in December 1992 Paul Keating, the Prime Minister, made a speech that resonated with me in a powerful way. The speech was in response to the International Year of the World’s Indigenous People and was delivered in Redfern, NSW, in front of a predominantly Aboriginal audience:

“The starting point might be to recognise that the problem starts with non-aboriginal Australians
It begins with the act of recognition
Recognise that it was we who did the dispossessing
We took the traditional lands and smashed the traditional way of life
We brought the diseases. The alcohol.
We committed the murders
We took the children from their mothers
We practised discrimination and exclusion.
It was our ignorance and prejudice
And our failure to imagine these things done to us
With some noble exceptions, we failed to make the most basic human response and enter into their hearts and minds.
We failed to ask – how would I have felt if this was done to me?
As a consequence, we failed to see what we were doing and degraded all of us.”
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In 2018 I attended a session at Koori Heritage Trust in Federation Square, Melbourne.  It was the opportunity to sit for four minutes at a table, facing an Aboriginal person, not talking but simply looking into each other’s eyes.I walked away shaking and hoping that through my eyes I had conveyed my sorrow, shame and love.

I will never know.
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* Last year Patrice Mahoney was awarded the Medal of the Order of Australia for her work in promoting awareness and acknowledgement of the Indigenous community in Bass Coast. In the new role of Aboriginal Development Officer for Bass Coast Shire, she is helping to develop the shire’s first Reconciliation Action Plan.​
8 Comments
Fiona
21/5/2021 12:45:37 pm

Anne, this article brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for writing it.

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Tricia O'Brien
21/5/2021 02:12:24 pm

Perfectly expressed Anne, like all non-indigenous peoples of this land I have benefited from this land. As a nation we need to grasp our true history with both hands, acknowledge the pain and suffering to out First Nation People and act on the Ularu Statement From The Heart. It is only then that this land can be a true nation.

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Nicola Miller
21/5/2021 11:14:44 pm

Thank you, Anne.
And, ditto, to the comments above.

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Linda Cuttriss
23/5/2021 09:55:29 am

Thanks Anne for sharing your story, a story that reverberates loudly and cruelly through the history of Bass Coast, Gippsland and beyond. I am always lost for words. It’s too overwhelming. So, thanks for being so brave by putting your feelings into words.

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Catherine Watson
24/5/2021 06:34:03 pm

Kudos to Anne Davie for her many years of good work in reconciliation within Bass Coast, and to Patrice Mahoney for her challenge to whitefellas. So many of us feel shy about joining in reconciliation events, or that we may be intruding. Patrice invites us to walk with her and other indigenous people towards a new future.

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Karen Sandon
24/5/2021 09:48:15 pm

Thank you Anne for your words and your many actions towards reconciliation.
I encourage all of us anglo-descendant white-fellas to notice our embarrassment and discomfort, and to realise it is a signal of yet another privilege that we have in this land; the privilege to have a choice about entering the reconciliation path. Walking alongside others can only make us all the richer as a community and as individuals. Grief and sadness at the past shows our humility. Working towards true equality must be more than an abstract 'we are all equal' . It must translate into practical changes such as our black kids getting jobs, growing up in their own families, staying linked to lifelong learning and education. Lets take a step toward ethical, genuine and congruent relationships across cultural and colour differences. Lets walk together across the bridge. Lets BE together. To paraphrase the aforementioned Paul Keating in the Redfern Speech: "If we can imagine injustice, surely we can imagine its opposite."

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Neralie Hoadley
26/5/2021 04:00:26 pm

Thank you Anne,
It’s hard to face our own ignorance and neglect, but so important to tell the truth.

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Lorraine Rodda VIC
26/2/2022 06:10:59 pm

I just found this marvellous account of your journey Anne. Thank you for expressing the sadness and the loss of opportunity given to us through out our schooling and into our parenting years to know about and to make reparation to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Peoples. Now needs to be that time.



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