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The change starts here

16/8/2018

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The murder of a young woman at Cowes prompted an outpouring of grief and a determination to tackle family violence in our community, writes Cr Pamela Rothfield.

PictureOn Saturday the Phillip Island and Inverloch Football Netball Clubs will honour the memory of Sam Fraser at the home and away matches to be played at the Cowes Recreation Reserve.
By Pamela Rothfield

A FEW weeks ago, our tight-knit community was devastated by the tragic passing of a beautiful young mother of three, Samantha Fraser.

With great respect for Samantha, and her family, I wish to acknowledge her tonight and what her death has meant for me, fellow councillors, council staff and many in our community, especially on Phillip Island.

Firstly, it has shown me how much a community can rally together and care for one another. The response has been tremendous. Inspiring, to say the least.
It has also shown me how much a community can collectively grieve and feel angered about what has happened.

One can only feel cheated when something like this occurs. Unfortunately, this is another reminder for us; another sad and inexcusable example of violence against women.

This shocking incident has affected so many of us. I have been privileged to be able to discuss this issue with service providers and survivors of domestic violence. It all reaffirms to me that urgent action is needed.

Our society needs to change, and change starts with each of us.

One of the best places to start is to remember a saying that resonates with me – “The standard we walk past is the standard we accept.”

Domestic violence is not acceptable. We all have to speak up and call it out.

Council, as a White Ribbon Accredited Organisation is committed to ending violence against women.

Many of us have taken an oath to recognise the importance of men taking responsibility and being part of the solution to end the violence, abuse and inequality faced by women across Australia.

It is important that we all stand up, speak out and act to prevent this kind of violence in our community.

Council will continue to work with support agencies and advocate for appropriate services that reflect the need of our community.

There is a huge amount happening in the background. We have great support from the State Government, service providers and community groups and individuals. The extra investment and commitment in this space will become apparent to our community in the coming months.

A forum on violence against women will be held on the Island in September, and we are looking forward to hearing the outcomes from that.

Cr Rothfield is Mayor of Bass Coast. This is the transcript of an address she gave at Wednesday night’s council meeting.  

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Bass Coast councillors and council staff mark White Ribbon Day, part of a campaign to prevent men’s violence against women.
2 Comments
Nat
17/8/2018 11:45:47 am

Thank you for this timely address. “The standard we walk past is the standard we accept.” This standard even starts long before physical violence to another person. It starts with pushing in front of others, no manners, not thinking of others, abusive language to our loved ones, and to other drivers, and to retail staff. It’s the excuses we make when we ourselves or our children show that behaviour. It’s up to all of us to create a community of peace that we want to live in.

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Phyllis Papps
19/8/2018 11:22:49 am

Thank you Madam Mayor for this excellent address at the Council meeting and for your passion regarding protecting women against domestic violence and abuse.

For many, many, decades this has been a subject that the Police and other authorities have ignored or pretended it wasn't happening. OR they didn't believe the women who had reported many incidents of domestic violence (despite various restraining orders.) .

Women's complaints have been ignored. Families stick together and pretend domestic violence isn't happening.

It is now time for everyone and anyone to report incidents of domestic violence against women - neighbours, friends, relatives etc.

It is the responsibility of the community to make sure that the lives of wonderful women (irrespective of age) are forever protected in the future. That is the least they can do to PROTECT WOMEN.

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